emoticon; concerned subject

[john]

Appeal for help formulating personal policy of crossposting and comment redirection with other site or service. Emoticon. Acknowledgement of personal discomfort caused OP defriending users on other site or service. Emoticon. Amazement at length of time OP has been on other site or service.

Comments

[forthwritten]

Enquiry as to OP's familiarity with FAQ. Link to tangentially related FAQ. Lack of acknowledgement of OP's evident distress.